2010 Year of Pleasures #31

Bear and Atti

For as thoroughly team oriented as Bear and I are, he doesn’t show up on the blog much. And that is by conscious choice. I am greedy with him. I have very few personal boundaries, I’ve posted about everything from my near-death experience to my bowel functions, but him? He’s just for me.

He is such a good father, so engaged with his son. Such a supportive partner to me.

When I was in Utah, my sister gave me some old pictures, and this one was from our first year together.

The Early Years
Mr. Preppy Zach Morris married Ms. 90’s Grunge rock. We’re still pretty opposite, but instead of making us fight, somehow those differences just fit together. I think we’re better parents, better people, better partners because we make it work. And when one of us melts down and yells at everyone in the room because the computer breaks, the other is around to pick up the pieces until it’s their turn to melt down.

Happy 11 year anniversary Bear. I love you.

2010 Year of Pleasures #30

Foam Burst Body Wash

Every time I open up my bathroom cupboard I think, “I have got to take a picture of my stash of body wash.” And then I go about my day and meanwhile the stash dwindles and dwindles and dwindles. Now that I’ve gone through half of it, I can’t put it off any longer.

I have to put together more than my share of gift baskets. Nursing homes are really big on celebrating all those office holidays – Nursing Week, Secretary Day, that kind of thing – so I usually get drafted in to put something together that has strict budget constraints and has to satisfy a whole bunch of different people. So I head to Bath and Body Works.

On one of those gift bag trips I came across a whole table in the back with these Foam Burst body washes on super super discount. Like, $2 each discount, because they were being discontinued. I literally grabbed a bag and swiped the whole table in.

When you squirt a bit in your hand, it foams up just like shaving gel. It’s fantastic to shave with, but it’s also just wonderful as soap with that creamy lather. I can’t get enough of this stuff. I’m hoping and hoping that it was just temporarily discontinued to make room for something new and it will come back. Hopefully just before my stash runs out.

2010 Year of Pleasures #29

Mango Sticky Rice

A new Thai place opened up not far from our house, and I have had Bear stop in for Mango Sticky Rice a couple nights a week ever since I first tried it. I’m obsessed.

I tell myself it’s healthy. It’s healthy, right? Fruit, coconut milk, rice, healthy. Yeah?

No wait, don’t tell me.

2010 Year of Pleasures #28

Pretzel M&M's

Do yourself a favor. Don’t even try these. Don’t even walk down their aisle. They are trouble and you will never be able to undo that first taste. You’ll be hooked for life.

2010 Year of Pleasures #27

4th of July - splash
A full day crammed with fun

4th of July - swim
Atti and Bear in the pool

4th of July - pruny toes
Until the toes got all pruny

4th of July - puzzle
Blessed uninterrupted hours to do a puzzle and not feel guilty about making better use of my time

4th of July - ice cream
Atti savoring his first bite of chocolate ice cream

4th of July - chocolate face
Grandma disobeying and giving him a few more than one bite

4th of July - shaved ice
Shaved ice made in every color of the rainbow

4th of July - big boy bike
Atti playing with a big boy bike. Next step – making it go.

4th of July - fireworks
Cousins dancing with sparklers

4th of July - BOOM
Watching the (occasionally scary) fireworks set off

4th of July - fireworks
Before heading to bed and leaving playtime for the really big kids.

2010 Year of Pleasures #26

Empanada

You ask any Northern Californian and they’ll tell you. The Mexican food is better up here. I’m sure someone somewhere has a theory as to why that is, but it beats the heck out of me.

You can always find some local woman selling tamales in the grocery store parking lot, or choose between the five excellent taquerias in town, but my latest favorite discovery is the freshly made empanadas at the farmer’s market.

It is so much fun to walk in the sunshine munching on this pastry full of spicy meaty goodness.

Join me in my search for the pleasures of life. Post your pleasure on your blog, and link back here!

2010 Year of Pleasures #25

Coca Cola Slurpee

After I nearly died in the sun, look at what my sweet husband brought home for me. Oh my gosh, on the right kind of day there may not be a single thing better than a slurpee.

Let’s try this experiment. Join me in a search for the pleasures in life. Write a post on your blog about the pleasure you sought out, then link here.

2010 Year of Pleasures #24

I spent an entire day last week trying to track down lumber options to have my kitchen island custom built, and guess what we found this weekend?

New Kitchen Island front

It was absolute serendipity. We were making plans to drive an hour a way in a rented pickup truck to buy the materials we’d need, when Bear got a text with a picture of the kitchen island and the text, “at Big Lots” from a number he didn’t recognize. Turns out that someone he works with saw it and thought it would be good for the office.

New kitchen island

Every kitchen island I looked at cost thousands of dollars. Even my custom made super simple one was going to cost $500. This one cost us $229 and a days labor. Now *this* is a kitchen I can work in.

2010 Year of Pleasures #23

Golden Boy

This guy’s hair just kills me. I have no idea how I ended up with a blond haired hazel eyed little man. If it weren’t for that chin and that nose I’d wonder if he was switched in the NICU.

2010 Year of Pleasures #22

Garage Dresser

I worry you guys are going to get so sick of my bragging.

Solid wood dresser, beat up pretty badly but super sturdy.

$15.

I think I have a Craigslist angel.

This was actually a total accidental bit of serendipity. I have been working for weeks to try to get the garage in enough order to actually be able to park our cars inside. But I couldn’t unpack the last of the boxes because we didn’t have any shelving to put the stuff on. And it was all stuff we actually use. Tools, messy craft supplies, stuff that I didn’t want to just leave packed in a big box to dig through every time I needed to hang a picture.

But I also didn’t want to pay for shelving in a house we’re renting.

During my daily perusal of Craigslist, I see this dresser and in the description the seller mentions using it in a garage since the finish is so beat up. Ding Ding Ding!! The perfect answer to my problem. For fifteen measly dollars. I hadn’t even considered getting a dresser. I just kept trying to consolidate and stack things more carefully. Now it’s like I have my own little tool chest, except instead of lug nuts, it’s full of metal screening and feathers.