For as thoroughly team oriented as Bear and I are, he doesn’t show up on the blog much. And that is by conscious choice. I am greedy with him. I have very few personal boundaries, I’ve posted about everything from my near-death experience to my bowel functions, but him? He’s just for me.
He is such a good father, so engaged with his son. Such a supportive partner to me.
When I was in Utah, my sister gave me some old pictures, and this one was from our first year together.

Mr. Preppy Zach Morris married Ms. 90’s Grunge rock. We’re still pretty opposite, but instead of making us fight, somehow those differences just fit together. I think we’re better parents, better people, better partners because we make it work. And when one of us melts down and yells at everyone in the room because the computer breaks, the other is around to pick up the pieces until it’s their turn to melt down.
Happy 11 year anniversary Bear. I love you.
