2009 Year of Pleasures #31

I’m leaving in minutes to spend the rest of the week in Utah for this conference I keep talking about, but I’m most excited for it because I get to catch up with some of my most favorite people from around the internet.

FMH Party
The women of Feminist Mormon Housewives being charming and ridiculous and charmingly ridiculous.

Janet any my baby in love
The dearest Janet transfixing a cranky Atticus with the power of her mind.

Sara and Atticus
Possibly the best picture ever. Trying to get a picture together while her Atticus and my Atticus kept trying to grab each others faces off.

As if the internet hasn’t brought me enough bounty in this life, it’s brought me just the greatest people to be my friends.

Jumbo Picnic Blanket

Jumbo picnic blanket

Late in the Spring I ventured out to a couple of thrift stores, which I really don’t do very often. They are not known for their treasures around here, a lot of people live off these stores, and California is pretty young for antiques. You East coasters don’t even know how lucky you are. Anyhoo, I went looking for some vintage linens I could turn into a beach blanket. I knew that vintage linens would be a tall order, but I at least managed to find a couple of old sheets that would do the job. Combined with some fabric I had left over from my stash, I chopped everything up into pieces measuring 3 1/2 x 5 1/2, and sewed them all together into a brick pattern.

Since I knew from the beginning that this was going to be used outdoors and on the ground, I didn’t want to spend weeks making an heirloom quilt, so I used the brilliant idea from this book and the Super Quick and Easy Baby Quilt. In a nutshell, you skip the binding portion altogether by sewing the quilt right sides together and then turning it right side out, and instead of complicated quilting or tying you just use those decorative stitches included with your sewing machine. Just inspired.

My own brilliant little bit of inspiration* was an answer to a problem that drove me nuts at the beach. About two minutes after you spread out your blanket, the first time anyone shifts around or somebody walks by, your blanket ends up in a tangled pile. So I wanted to stake it in place.

*At least I’m pretty sure it was mine, I feel like it came from my own head but since I’m not exactly easily mistaken for “outdoorsy”, this could just be how it’s always done and I’ve reinvented the wheel.

picnic blanket tie downs

I used some leftover fabric to make a piece that measured 3 1/2 x 10 inches and sewed it right sides together to make a tube, then I just tucked it between the layers, one in each corner and in the middle of each side, lining up the raw edges before sending the whole quilt sandwich through the machine.

I tried to just carry this mondo blanket loose during our ill-fated beach trip a couple weeks ago and it was absolutely a mistake. I made this blanket as big as I possibly could – it’s about a queen size – so that it could be used for big family get-togethers or play dates, but it was just impossible to carry. So I had to make a big jumbo bag to carry the jumbo blanket, complete with extra long handles so I can toss it over my shoulder and keep a hand free for kid wrangling on walks to and from the car.
Picnic Blanket Tote

And then while the sewing machine was still hot I kept right on going and sewed up a little drawstring pouch to keep the tent stakes in.

Tent Stakes Pouch

In my head this was going to be a quick project finished before spring ended and put to use all summer long. It took a whole lot longer than I planned, but I did it. Just in time for the fall, which all the locals know is the best time to visit the beach anyway.

2009 Year of Pleasures #30

Cooking Class
The teenagers I teach at church came over last week to hold a little cooking class. I work with the 16 and 17 year olds, and we’re always trying to think of something to do that will prepare them for life on their own while still being interesting for them now. When we started talking about doing a cooking unit, they were totally on board. (I love that my hand is blurred in this picture. If you’ve ever held a conversation with me, you know that my hand flailing to word count ratio is about even.)

Cooking with my girls
We made a little rice pilaf and we went over knife skills and a mirepoix. It was just so darn much fun to see their enthusiasm. When I showed them how to microwave a lemon to get the most juice out, and then squeezed it onto the rice, I got a wave of literal oohs and aahs. I just adore this group of girls, they have it so together, so much talent and maturity. It’s like they’re all just waiting, with watches checked and toes tapping, until they’re old enough to strike out on their own and get on with what they’re capable of already.

2009 Year of Pleasures #29

Copper Birds

Earlier this summer I was tooling around a beach town with Karen, my cousin/favorite shopping buddy. We were walking past this shop that was obviously serving a clientele that did not include me. Lots of things you’d see at your grandma’s house, doilies draped without irony or juxtaposition, tapestries, framed shadowboxes of nautical knots, images of cats rendered in every color and medium, and there in the back on the clearance table was this little bird family.

I snapped them up for $1 for the little ones and $2 for the mom and dad bird.

Karen, a beacon of fashion and style, gasped at my luck and pointed out that these birds would fit in perfectly at Anthropolgie or Urban Outfitters, just at 10 times the price.

Lesson learned. Do not turn up your nose at the grandma stores.

The Long Form

I don’t really know if it’s because I’m a mom now, or because I’m getting older and (hopefully) maturing, or just a new attempt at mindfulness inspired by this wonderful craft blogging community, but for the first time in my life I’m actually attempting to sync up with the rhythm of the world around me.

I’ve never been an outdoorswoman. I’ve never really been one to watch the seasons change and marvel at Mother Nature’s chaotic order. Or seek out that version of order in my own life. But now, now I’m trying to be aware of time. Aware of what I’m missing when I get caught up in my own head. Aware of the tender mercies and spots of beauty presented to me with every new morning.

It doesn’t help that I really don’t care for summer. I’m a total wimp about the heat, I’m a dark-haired red head with red head skin that does not appreciate the sun, and I’m afraid of deep water. Summer doesn’t have a ton to recommend it to someone like me. But I’m trying.

So we’ve been busting out the grill whenever we can bring ourselves to face the heat of the backyard, lounging on the outdoor couch, eating warm tomatoes from the vines, making homemade lemonade, and I’ve been trying to pay attention to the rhythm of these summer days and follow their example.

Summer is long slow languid days, and so that is what I’ve been working on. Long, slow, projects that I get to work on while reclining.

To be hand-bound
Hand binding some quilty projects – with the bulk of the fabric pushed as far off to the side as I can manage so that none of it actually touches me.

Cable pillow
Knitting projects on a small scale – so none of the knit actually touches me. It is hot here, y’all.

Atti's stocking in progress
And stitching stitching stitching until my eyes go as crossed as my stitches. I can’t put this down.

It makes for uneventful blog material when I go weeks without finishing any projects, but working on those long-term projects just seems to fit with the flow around here these days.

Taking my show on the road.

Next month I’m going to be speaking at the Sunstone symposium. Sunstone is a fantastic magazine that focuses on the Mormon experience through academic scholarship, literature, and addressing of social issues within the church and without. It doesn’t seem to have the rule that everything it prints has to be strictly devotional, so you’ll often find articles inside that make you think deeply about your beliefs and how you apply the gospel for yourself. Since my own faith is more of the searching, questioning type, as opposed to the humble obedient type, I so appreciate the forum Sunstone provides to learn and grow and deepen my faith in the open and sometimes messy way that seems to work for me.

I’ll be appearing on three different panels. One on raising a child with special needs, another on online resourses for Young Women’s leaders (thanks to my work at Beginnings New), and another on “mommy blogging” (oh that term makes my skin crawl – it just sounds so dismissive to me) with my friends at Feminist Mormon Housewives.

The conference is August 12 – 15 in Salt Lake City, so if any of you are planning to attend I’d love it if you said hello! I could use the support. It’s a little intimidating to come into such learned and accomplished company with just this little blog to recommend me.

Necklace in progress

Meanwhile, I have to get busy writing three different speeches, but the harder thing is going to be trying to find something to wear. This post-baby figure of mine has not budged in 18 months, and nobody seems to make nice clothes for the post-baby body. I would really like to find something that isn’t too tight in the wrong places without hiding all my right places. So I think I’m going to have to make it myself. With the perfect jewelry of course.

Things I’m loving right now…

Here’s what I’m spending my time on while it’s been too hot to be productive:

This game.

These puzzles.

This webseries.

This music. (Seriously. Listen to the first track. Amazing)

And this music.

These TV shows.

These really awesome podcasts.

This book.

This audiobook.

These dresses. But only to look at, unless they somehow go on 75% clearance.

2009 Year of Pleasures #28

It has been SO. Darn. Hot. here over the last couple of weeks. Too hot to cook, too hot to wear clothes you’d be seen in public in, too hot to touch another human.

There are only so many nights that you can scrounge around to make a dinner out of cold cereal and crackers, so we had to do something creative.

Fondue Party

We bought a fondue pot a few weeks ago and this seemed like the perfect time to bust it out. I just love fondue. Nibbles of cheese and carbs is like heaven on a platter to me. When we were first married Bear would throw me a carpet picnic on special occasions. We’d lay on our bellies on the living room rug and stuff our faces with grapes and fancy crackers and little bits of cheese and deli meat. This fondue party made me so nostalgic, and made me promise myself I’d bring back the carpet picnic tradition.

But this eating a solid pound of cheese was pretty great in its own right.

The newest member of our family

Everyone, meet Gizmo

Gizmo

He is a flame point Himalayan/Persian mix which is like a cousin breed to our Ragdolls.

We found him on Craigslist and the lady said he was eight weeks old. On the way home I saw a couple fleas on him, so we went straight to the vet’s to get him dipped. The vet took one look at him and said, “That cat is not eight weeks old. He is way too young for anything other than a bath and a flea comb.” So we did as we were told.

How Gizmo got his name
And that’s how he got his name. Doesn’t he look like a little Gremlin here?

Snuggle buddies
We felt strongly about getting a kitten instead of an older cat. This little guy has a big job ahead of him to fill the shoes of our sweet Lobo, and as a kitten we have the best chance of training him (as much as you can ever really train a cat) to be Atti’s best buddy and playmate.

Loves
Although he hasn’t really needed much training so far. He seems to be taking to his job like a natural.

Since Lobo died I’ve been so sad that he wasn’t here just as Atti started really discovering the cats. Now that he can commando crawl he’s been trying to chase them all over the house, shouting Kitty! Kitty! the whole way, but the older girls want nothing to do with him. Now he plays with little Gizmo and laughs his head off as the kitten frolics around him.

sleeping sitting up
Until he just runs out of steam.

400th post giveaway!

I had not planned on slowing down for the summer, but, as I really should have learned by now, I seem to have very little control over how things go in my life. Atti’s still recovering and doing awesome but his eyes just look gruesome right now. The white part is still red and blistery looking, and his blue/hazel eyes are set off in such stark contrast against it that it’s a little bit spooky. On top of that, I was used to a little cross-eyed baby and now I have these bloody blue eyes peering directly into me. It’s a little bit disconcerting.

I’ve been running around like crazy behind the scenes here, trying to make some career opportunities happen, trying to track down the cause of all these nerve-wracking chest pains, and trying to not blow my top at any medical professional who doesn’t listen to me. I guess some people think that it’s calming if the doctor doesn’t seem terribly concerned, but all you have to do is have one doctor call you crazy and suddenly any attempts at calmness just seem like you’re not being taken seriously.

I have been neglecting you my dear blog, and I have a bunch I have to share, but for today I thought I’d throw a little party. My five year anniversary is coming in November and I have a bunch of stuff planned for that, but I couldn’t resist a mini-celebration for hitting the big 4-0-0. You guys have meant so much to me, particularly over the last year. The needs of my little man keep me fairly isolated from my community, but I don’t feel that loss for a moment because I have such a supportive and nurturing group of people cheering me on. Really, I can’t say enough how much I value you all.

So, leave me a little comment (make sure you enter an email address or leave a link) and I will draw one winner at random who will get to select *any* item they wish from my shop. That’s right, one free item of your choice just for coming by and saying hi. I’ll pick a winner on Friday, at 9am Pacific time.

Because I love you guys, and sometimes I just don’t say it enough.